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First of all, this site: http://factsaboutyouth.com/
As stated on their site, factsaboutyouth.com is put together by the The American College of Pediatricians which is a national organization of pediatricians and other healthcare professionals dedicated to the health and well-being of children. Formed in 2002 and now with members in 47 states, the College is funded almost entirely by membership dues and receives no financial support from religious or political organizations.
The site gives a scientific overview of all aspects of homosexuality, from where it begins to the health risks involved.
To begin, homosexuality is not exclusively hardwired. http://factsaboutyouth.com/getthefacts/quickfacts/ , http://www.narth.com/docs/bornway.html
At best there is some predisposure for homosexual attraction, but ultimately it is a combination of factors with environmental events playing a large role. In other words, some people might have a greater chance genetically of being overweight or an alcoholic than someone else, especially when put in an environment that might encourage said behavior. Without getting into too much of a debate over whether morality is individually defined or not, there just are things in life that some people have deal with more than others. All genetic predispositions involving behavior choices can be avoided if that person decides that the behavior is not beneficial.
The key here is homosexuality is NOT exclusively genetic. That is a proven fact amongst even homosexual psychologists.
Interesting factoid: Rigorous studies demonstrate that most adolescents who initially experience same-sex attraction, or are sexually confused, no longer experience such attractions by age 25. In one study, as many as 26% of 12-year-olds reported being uncertain of their sexual orientation yet only 2-3% of adults actually identify themselves as homosexual. Therefore the majority (85+%) of sexually questioning youth ultimately adopt a heterosexual identity. http://factsaboutyouth.com/wp-content/uploads/ACLU_whitehead_Sept2010.pdf
The homosexual lifestyle is one of extreme sexual promiscuity, resulting in much higher STD/HIV rates. http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/promiscuity/ , http://narth.com/docs/disproportionate.html (featuring Center for Disease Control (CDC) stats) http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1502263/posts (this is a biased Catholic page with documented stats, take it for what its worth)
No matter where you want to get your facts, its undeniable homosexual practitioners have far more overall sexual encounters/partners than heterosexuals, which appear to lead to higher disease rates. 2010 CDC stats indicate that the rate of new HIV diagnoses among men who have sex with men is more than 44 times that of other (hetero) men and more than 40 times that of (hetero) women. The rate of primary and secondary syphilis among men having sex with men is more than 46 times that of other (hetero) men and more than 71 times that of (hetero) women. In addition to this, there is a laundry list of other viruses, cancers, and diseases associated with anal sex (http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/physical-health/).
Homosexuals have higher rates of psychiatric illness, including depression, drug abuse and suicide attempts. http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/mental-health/
And this cannot be solely attributed to homophobia. Many studies have been done in countries where homosexual activity or marriage is accepted and have found the same mental health results.
“The Dutch study, published in the Archives of General Psychiatry, did indeed find a high rate of psychiatric disease associated with same-sex sex. Compared to controls who had no homosexual experience in the 12 months prior to the interview, males who had any homosexual contact within that time period were much more likely to experience major depression, bipolar disorder, panic disorder, agoraphobia and obsessive compulsive disorder. Females with any homosexual contact within the previous 12 months were more often diagnosed with major depression, social phobia or alcohol dependence. In fact, those with a history of homosexual contact had higher rates of nearly all psychiatric pathologies measured in the study.”
Suicide thoughts or attempts are 5-6 times higher for homosexuals practitioners than heterosexuals. And its thought that up to 2/3 of the reasoning behind those suicide attempts were from relationship breakups (rather than the oft thought “societal pressure”). http://www.narth.com/docs/whitehead.html
Male homosexual or bisexual practitioners lost up to 20 years of life expectancy. http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/life-span/
This is perhaps the most alarming and damning statistic on homosexual behavior. An epidemiological study from Vancouver, Canada for AIDS related dealths….concluded that if 3 percent of the population studied were gay or bisexual, the probability of a 20-year-old gay or bisexual man living to 65 years was only 32 percent, compared to 78 percent for men in general. The damaging effects of cigarette smoking pale in comparison -cigarette smokers lose on average about 13.5 years of life expectancy.
Its thought that this lost life expectancy is a low estimate because it doesn’t even include suicide or other diseases other than HIV that are perpetuated through homosexual behavior. Also, HIV/AIDS is often undereported by 15-20%.
Homosexual relationships are extremely unstable http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/monogamy/
“The survey found 94 percent of married people and 75 percent of cohabiting people had only one partner in the prior year…..Gay men reportedly have sex with someone other than their partner in 66 percent of relationships (meaning 34% didn’t, a 40% drop from cohabiting heterosexuals) within the first year, rising to approximately 90 percent if the relationship endures over five years.
Personally, this gives me little reason to believe allowing homosexual marriage would make any difference in increasing the fidelity levels of homosexual relationships.
Children do best when raised by both biological parents. http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/are-children-with-same-sex-parents-at-a-disadvantage/
“…children who grow up without their own married mother and father in the home face significant disadvantages in all important measures of well-being: physical and mental health, educational attainment, general happiness, confidence and empathy development, as well as protection from poverty, substance abuse, domestic violence and sexual abuse and avoidance of unmarried child-bearing. Children who grow-up in any other family form — single-parent family, divorced, step-family, or cohabiting parents – don’t do as well by up to half in these measures compared to children living with their own married mother and father.”
There is bullet point after bullet point after bullet point (with unbiased sources) in the link above that support the claim that the original biological parents offer the best results for child rearing.
To be fair, none of this says homosexual couples couldn’t raise a child and that child succeed in all measurable standards. However, as the link points out, no human culture over the course of a generation has raised children in a same sex household. So what we have to go on is nearly 40 years of study of how children have faired in no-fault divorce, cohabitation, unwed childrearing and fatherlessness. The results have been nothing but negative for child well-being. The same people who are saying that kids raised in same-sex homes will turn out fine were the same people 40 years ago saying no-fault divorce would have no effect on kids. There isn’t anyone who could reasonably hypothesize based on the facts we have on family and child-rearing that a homosexual couple could raise a child to even equal the ability of the biological parents.
Summary
The debate rages as to whether we should publically accept homosexual behavior or license it. Unbiased scientific research shows the homosexual lifestyle to be extrodinarily personally destructive. Whether someone believes in God or the Bible or believes in the humanist ideals of individually defined morality; they can’t just ignore these facts. Its perfectly reasonable, if not entirely responsible, to take a stand against supporting the homosexual lifestyle and any laws promoting it. The key is how to approach it. Not in a hateful “you are wrong and going to hell” method, but rather one of love and hope. There is help out for those that want to avoid the consequences of the homosexual lifestyle. As a Christian, its our job to be there when needed.
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(For those that don’t know, my blog title is in reference to google’s ad campaign “it gets better” http://mashable.com/2011/05/04/google-chrome-it-gets-better/)